Mindful Path Counseling
There is always something new to learn along the mindful path that will heal what hurts and enrich your life.

There is always something new to learn along the mindful path that will heal what hurts and enrich your life.
Chinese Proverb
Hi! I'm Sondra, your Mindful Path therapist! This is me standing next to my grapevines.I love gardening, making jams and jellies, and cooking. I also enjoy going for walks with my therapy yorkipoo, Cookie, and playing with my many grandchildren! I like to read fiction and non-fiction, write blogs when I have time, and listen to podcasts. I love my coffee in the morning and my tea in the evening. I am passionate about what I do and never tire of seeing my clients heal!
Learn how self compassion opens the door for healthy living, harmonious relationships, and new possibilities. Discover a gentle way to transform your life.
I am excited to announce that I now offer a therapeutic modality called Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP): the use of ketamine as a complement to psychotherapy. I deliver KAP in my practice in partnership with Journey Clinical, which has a specialized medical team that determines eligibility for KAP, prescribes ketamine lozenges, & supports me in monitoring outcomes. If interested, e-mail me at sondra@longbrakeconsulting.com to discuss eligibility & next steps. For more information, go to https://journey64608.ac-page.com/patientresourcecenter
Adverse Childhood Experiences
The Center for Disease Control (CDC) says that Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are potentially traumatic events that occur in childhood. You can learn more and take the quiz here. ACEs can include violence, abuse, and growing up in a family with mental health or substance use problems, among other things. Toxic stress from ACEs can change brain development and affect how the body responds to stress. You can learn to rewire your brain and stop the stress response and the long term effects on your health, your family, and your career.
Toxic Relationships
Constant exposure to toxic interactions at home, at work, or with friends or extended family can lead to a number of physical, mental, and emotional difficulties. It can lead to confusion, sleepless nights, and intrusive thoughts as you try to make sense of the toxic person's words, actions, and motives. It can lead to headaches, backaches, digestive issues, and a whole host of physical problems. Therapy can help you emotionally disentangle yourself and heal from the long term effects.
You have probably heard that thoughts can have a profound impact on how we feel, and how we feel can impact our decision making. Cognitive behavior therapy focuses a lot on changing your thoughts and actions in order to feel better. While it is true that this approach can be quite helpful, we need an additional piece to complete the puzzle. By working with the body and the brain simultaneously, we can bring you to a much better place mentally, physically, socially, and emotionally.
About the Body: The primal, survival part of our brains can pick up on the most subtle cues in the environment and trigger a fight/flight response. We are suddenly anxious, or maybe even in a panic. The body tells the brain there is an emergency, and the brain obliges by creating a story that matches the level of panic. With a few simple techniques, we can calm the panic response, and like magic, the problem is now easily manageable.
Once some of the most extreme reactions are under control, we can begin to go deeper with a series of gentle guided meditations to get to the heart of the issues. By using symbolism and active imagination, you can transform those old wounds that may be too painful for words. We use a combination of art, journaling, and symbolic imagery to integrate and strengthen deep, lasting change and healing.
Sondra Longbrake has mapped out her own recovery journey with ACEs and toxic relationships. She earned a bachelor’s in social work in 2001 and a master’s degree in counseling in 2011. Through continued research, professional practice, and her own spiritual journey, she developed an approach to personal healing and growth that changed her life. Now you can join Sondra on this powerful journey by following her healing blueprint.
We use a top down-bottom up approach to therapy. In other words, we help you transform internal thoughts, beliefs, moods, and feelings. At the same time, we teach some skills to the relieve the anxiety that keeps you stuck while we support you in taking actionable steps toward the changes you want to make. These combined modalities each create momentum for the other.
Call, Text, or Chat to 988
988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code that will route callers to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), and is now active across the United States.
When people call, text, or chat 988, they will be connected to trained counselors that are part of the existing Lifeline network. These trained counselors will listen, understand how their problems are affecting them, provide support, and connect them to resources if necessary.
Healthy relationships are super important to anyone’s overall mental health and wellbeing. Your partner can be a wonderful resource in that regard. Unfortunately, we often experience a great deal of stress within our most important relationships. John and Julie Gottman are leading experts in the science of what makes relationships work and what gets in the way. With the Gottman principles and a program called Gottman Connect, we infuse our trauma informed approach into this proven method. Don’t wait! The sooner you start, the sooner you’ll have the satisfying relationship you’ve been dreaming about!
Ketamine is safe and legal. While it is useful in treating depression, anxiety, trauma related symptoms and many other issues, ketamine is not like a typical mental health medication that is taken daily for months or even years.Ketamine is taken in conjunction with psychotherapy.
Ketamine induces a psychedelic/dissociative/trance like state that temporarily softens automatic defense mechanisms. I like to say it gets the "Figure Outer" part of the brain out of the way so the more creative, curious part of the brain can explore greater possibilities. Your therapist will assist you in setting an intention for your 45 minute ketamine journey, and then with psychotherapeutic interventions, assist you in applying new insights to your daily life.
You will typically have a 45 to 50 minute preparation/intention-setting session a day or two before the medicine. Then, you will meet with your therapist for your dosing session, spending some time reviewing and/or updating your intentions. You will then take the medicine, lie back and enjoy an inward journey with music, headphones, and an eye mask to help facilitate the inward dissociative experience. Your therapist will be there for support only during this part of the process.
When you come out of the medicine in your own time, your therapist will be there to help you process the experience if that feels useful for you. A day or so later, you will again meet with your therapist again for an integration session to solidify newly gained insights.
This process will typically be repeated 6 to 8 times. However, you can continue with additional sessions as needed.
Kirsten shares her trauma history and healing journey in this poignant TED Talk.
We understand that everyone's healing path is different. Feel free to message or call us with any specific concerns.
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Longbrake Consulting & Advocacy LLC Vancouver, WA 98660US
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Mindful Path Counseling
Longbrake Consulting & Advocacy LLC Vancouver, WA 98660
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